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Post by don_taco on Jan 5, 2012 16:00:19 GMT -5
I really haven't been lurking. simply busy
I understand though, man. people can be jerks. I think the toughest thing about being a person is not letting one person (or set of people) sour you on everyone else
how's that for a general statement?
for reals, the best advice I can give is to forgive and forget. I know it's cliche. I know it's hard to do - forgiveness is stupid, crazy, retardo-hard. but doing so is so much healthier than stewing. While that may be fun for a while, you'll never move on without forgiveness. That's the high road, and it's the mother-fuckin' classiest way to go
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Post by Smaug on Jan 5, 2012 16:33:24 GMT -5
classy as ****.
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Post by don_taco on Jan 5, 2012 17:07:09 GMT -5
yup.
not to say that I do this consistsently or whatever. I just wish someone had given me that advice before I wasted like a decade on resentment and what I call "oh poor me"-itis.
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Post by Smaug on Jan 5, 2012 20:38:39 GMT -5
i used to go back and forth between oh woe is me and I am gonna kill em all.
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Post by FullFrontalBuddha on Jan 6, 2012 7:17:54 GMT -5
All very sound advice, thank you again.
And I wasn't referring to a lurking Taco (as amusing/terrifying as that idea is), there were like 27 people viewing when I typed that thing.
I'm trying to be forgiving and all of the good noble stuff, but I was so emotionally crotch-punched by how and what I learned first thing in the morning it was extremely difficult to just shake it off and go about my day.
In any event, I had dinner with a young lady that seems to have more than passing interest in me, so that made the evening way better than the day was.
And...Gutter Friday GO!
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Post by Smaug on Jan 6, 2012 9:25:55 GMT -5
And that's the circle of life...
Sorry if I put that Elton John in your head. I was trying to be deep and thoughtful, but it's too early for that and also non-guttery for Friday.
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Post by don_taco on Jan 6, 2012 9:31:57 GMT -5
hey everybody!
so glad it's Friday. also, bewbs.
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Post by Smaug on Jan 6, 2012 9:33:32 GMT -5
bee-yoobs!
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Post by Kao on Jan 6, 2012 9:44:40 GMT -5
morning boobers
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Post by don_taco on Jan 6, 2012 9:52:04 GMT -5
heyo!
it's forty degrees here. FORTY. I like it
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